Letting Go For Higher Ground

Today is a landmark day for me; it will be my final Talk YOUR Story show – at least for now. Letting go of things is difficult, but if we ever want to be free to move to God’s higher ground for us, we have to. God calls us from glory to glory as we grow. Like the trapeze artist who cannot hold on to one bar while grabbing the next, we must rely completely on faith as we move between the bars, aka move forward. It scary and exciting. God loves a heart that will put confidence in HIM. Want something fresh? Want to move forward? Want excitement and adventure? Want freedom to live in joy? Then, loosen the death grip on “whatever,” and LET GO. God has got your back! I hope you can share this final show with us!

Music for Today's show:

Jesus Take the Wheel by Carrie Underwood
Let it Rise by Holland Davis

Taking The Hit

Did you ever think you needed to make a change, but didn’t do it? Was it something big like breaking off a partnership or changing the way you interact with a loved one? Maybe it was a call of God on your life… Why don’t we do what we know we should do, or even must do? Taking the steps to make a change involves loss and usually pain, a “hit” of sorts. Have you thought about the cost of living in the familiar? Listen in today as we explore common barriers to change, and easy, yet challenging, reasons to “take the hit.”

Music for today's show:
All The Power You Need by Darlene Zschech
I'm Free by Jon Secada

Books mentioned:
Streams in the Desert by L.B. Cowman and James Reimann

The Power of Self-Boundaries!

Against gentleness and self-control, there is no law. Galatians 5:23
Isn’t it easy to point a critical finger, especially at a spouse? Since we can’t control or change someone else, why not put our energy where we DO have some power? Often we want something from someone that we don’t even offer ourselves. Sometimes, we don’t express our needs in an effective way, or we fail to draw boundaries when they are needed. These things are our own responsibility. How wonderful it is to open our hearts to correction, knowing the whole time that God loves us right now, just as we are! Join us on the 14th or you’ll be missed!

Music for today's show:
Wash Me Lord by Harvest
All That Is In Me by Harvest

Boundaries, Part 2

The Bible uses the phrase “unfailing love” 32 times. Not once is it attributed to humans. It would be wise for us to consider our own imperfect love as we continue this week on the topic of boundaries. In the book, Boundaries in Marriage, Henry Cloud and John Townsend discuss 10 “Laws of Boundaries.” They are likened to gravity in that we don’t have to acknowledge them or even “believe in them,” but nonetheless, they are in effect. I think it wise to educate ourselves, so that we will recognize them when they are in play and take responsibility for protecting our marriage, our spouse, and ourselves. Now doesn’t that sound good? You BET it is!!

Music for today's show:
Love Takes Time by Mariah Carey
A New Day Has Come by Celine Dion

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Boundaries 101

There are boundaries that hurt relationships and boundaries that promote healing. Boundaries set with love are not about controlling others or getting even. The laws of boundaries are very useful to know and basic to every human relationship. How much do YOU know about boundaries? What is your boundary IQ? Tune in today and get on the road to being an expert at standing on good ground with your heart set on love!

Today's Music:
Dreamlover by Mariah Carey
When You Believe by Mariah Carey

Princess

This message touched my own heart deeply. It is my favorite show – so far! The message is uplifting and powerful! I wish to share it with you today, as technical difficulties prevented it from streaming live on the original air date. Ladies, especially (but men too), this show is from me to you! Lisa

A Princess… that is what God created every one of his daughters to be. We ladies joke that we’re princesses – that’s why we like things “just so.” But the amazing, maybe startling truth is that it’s true. Each of God’s girls is a sparkling gem, a beloved princess. What would happen to our lives if we stepped into the favor that God has planned for the woman wearing His royal garments? Are you dressed properly?
Although his blessings and favor exist, we cannot experience them unless we claim our rightful identity. Will we live our lives in blindness that is hand delivered by our enemy? Step out into your royal heritage and live like the chosen one that you most certainly are! Ohana, this show is called Princess, but it could have been called Prince, so men, don’t miss this powerful message!

Music for today's show:
Crazy for this Girl by Evan and Jaron
King of the World by Point of Grace

Boondocks

Did you ever use your life history as an excuse for your current behavior? Hey, don’t lie to me, not for a second. I’ve done it. You’ve done it, but there comes a time to “mature up.” Even if, from the bottom of our hearts, we believe our “reasons” for being as we are, we’ve got to admit, they are mighty convenient. God’s plan for us includes big backwoods ponds of freedom. It doesn’t matter where you are from or what your story is, God has written a bigger, truer story for you that is your destiny. If you want all He has for you, then you have to get into agreement with God about his plans for you. Why not decide it’s time to learn a little more, in order to step boldly into all that you are to become?

Music for Today's Show:

Boondocks by Little Big Town
I Got A Name by Jim Croce


As mentioned on today's show:
The Sacred Romance
By: Brent Curtis & John Eldredge
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Coming UP!

Did you ever use your history as an excuse for your current behavior? Hmmmm? Even if you're from the "boondocks", literally or figuratively, God has honor and freedom in mind for YOU! Tune in this Friday for a great show!

Forgiving the Unforgivable...

Author and speaker, Teri Werner joins us again today to talk HER story - a personal account of disillusionment and pain. What would it be like to be only weeks into a new marriage only to discover that the person you love has not been honest with you about who they are or how they live? What if from there, the picture became more and more dark and frightening? Can victory in life follow devastation like this? Listen to Teri give you keys to surviving and transcending the "unforgivable." With God, all things are possible!

Music for Today's Show:

Always by Atlantic Starr
I Will Survive By Gloria Gaynor

Trusting the Wrong One

Did you ever find out that someone you trusted was not trustworthy? What happens inside of us when this happens? We must not judge someone else for what may be a brief period of failure. However, another’s failure to do what is right can sometimes deal us a crushing blow that can steal our joy – for even a whole lifetime, if we let it. Special guest, author and speaker Teri Werner, visits the program today to tell what happened to her when she trusted the wrong one.
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Changing Hearts in a Changing World with Host Teri Werner and her special guest, Leadership Icon, Les Brown on DVD! Les Brown's mantra "Get Out of your Head and Into Your Heart', and Teri's message of "At the Heart of Change, is a Change of Heart", created a synergy in the form of an exciting discussion; as Teri's leadership talk show pilot, "Changing Hearts in a Changing World".

Music For Today's Show:

The Gambler by Kenny Rogers
House Of Cards by Twyla Paris

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Hi Lisa,

I listened to most of the Princess story. It was a great message. I got it. I think sometimes we don't really realize how much God loves us and what he has planned for our lives or how he sees us. Faith...with that we can trust and believe how beautiful we all are in his eyes by which we need to believe it ourselves. I don't know if that makes sense but your story was very touching and you definitely came across with a voice full of sincerity,caring and love. Thanks for lifting us up. Thank you GOD!

A Listener from Hawaii Kai, Hawaii

Princess

A Princess… that is what God created every one of his daughters to be. We ladies joke that we’re princesses – that’s why we like things “just so.” But the amazing, maybe startling truth is that it’s true. Each of God’s girls is a sparkling gem, a beloved princess. What would happen to our lives if we stepped into the favor that God has planned for the woman wearing His royal garments? Are you dressed properly?
Although his blessings and favor exist, we cannot experience them unless we claim our rightful identity. Will we live our lives in blindness that is hand delivered by our enemy? Step out into your royal heritage and live like the chosen one that you most certainly are! Ohana, this show is called Princess, but it could have been called Prince, so men, don't miss this powerful message.

Music for today's show:
Crazy for this Girl by Evan and Jaron
King of the World by Point of Grace

A Royal Heritage

Do you ever joke around that you are a princess? What IF it were the absolute truth! Tune in Friday and claim who you are!!

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Only God's Truth Heals

Yes, we’re back on the very important subject of truth! “Our” truth comes from life experience. God’s truth is eternal and unbiased. He makes no errors in memory and never distorts the facts. God’s truth has certain hallmarks: it is encouraging, empowering, healing and penetrating. Without God’s truth as a foundation, our truth can leave us handicapped and broken (in places unseen). Who doesn’t need the truth that can free us? A freed life is a healed life! The healed life is a powerhouse for God!

Music for today's show:
He Is Not Silent by Out of the Grey
Ready To Take A Chance Again by Barry Manilow

The Human Bentley, Part 2

Last week, I asked how you care for your Bentley. If you think you don’t have one, then look in the mirror. God has given you a magnificent body, and control over how you care for it. Our bodies, according to the Bible, are not our own. 1 Corinthians 3:16 reads: Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s spirit lives in you? Today, we continue the discussion about caring for the human Bentley. Is it worth the effort? Is it just our choice? Do our choices affect others? Can we even win in the polluted, chemical laden world we live in? Well stay tuned, there is good news!

Music for today's show:
Turn Back Oh Man By Sonia Manzano and Co.
Breathe by Christy Nockles

How Do You care For Your Bently?

How Do You Care For Your Bentley? Our deluxe model bodies are truly awe inspiring. They do so much for us, but what do we do for, or to, them? Today there are many exposures in our environment that are harmful to our health. Probably the most profound exposure we have is what we choose eat. For many years Eastern medicine has recognized that food has the power to heal or harm. Western medicine is slowly catching on. It’s about time. Our wealthy, unhealthy nation is a bit of a disgrace. Does God care how we care for our bodies? Are they really ours?

Today's Music:
Running on Empty by Jackson Browne
Help by The Beatles

A Balanced Perspective

We can focus our attention on the good that surrounds us, or we can focus on the bad. Which is right? How do we live with joy and yet remain sensitive to all the suffering of this world? A balanced perspective not only helps with this dilemma, but can empower us to do our part to change this world for the better. If you want to sit back and say “why doesn’t God fix this world?”, then this may not be the show for you. If you want to step up to the plate of loving responsibility, then tune in today and move forward with a plan.

Today's Music:
New World by Leroy
We are not Silent by Out of the Grey

Choices in any Circumstance

It doesn’t always feel like there are choices, does it? Some things are beyond our control, like the loss of a child, a divorce, or a difficult illness. Nonetheless, there are always choices. Our most powerful choices have to do with ourselves and our own character. We are always free to make choices about our own attitude. A willingness to be honest with ourselves and to make fresh decisions are also within reach.

Music for today's show:

How Deep is Your Love By The Bee Gees
Suddenly by Billy Ocean

Standing in Love

Just because we know intellectually that we are loved by God, and just because He invites us to stand on high ground with Him doesn’t mean that we actually do it. Words and thoughts are easy, but boring. Actually standing up on His love takes effort. Once we are on our feet and decide to walk forward, God will lovingly support us as we walk out in power. This is our calling. This is your destiny. Are you answering the call? Tune in today for more on this life altering path.

Music for today's show:
Evergreen by Barbara Streisand
Stand by Susan Ashton

Taking the Hit

Did you ever think you needed to make a change, but didn’t do it? Was it something big like breaking off a partnership or changing the way you interact with a loved one? Maybe it was a call of God on your life… Why don’t we do what we know we should do, or even must do? Taking the steps to make a change involves loss and usually pain, a “hit” of sorts. Have you thought about the cost of living in the familiar? Listen in today as we explore common barriers to change, and easy, yet challenging, reasons to “take the hit.”

Music for today's show:
All The Power You Need by Darlene Zschech
I'm Free by Jon Secada

Books mentioned:
Streams in the Desert by L.B. Cowman and James Reimann

How deep is Your Love?

That isn’t a casual question; and, how deep is God’s love for you? These are two of the most important questions we will ever face. They should be asked and evaluated daily. What does loving someone mean to you? Too often our love is tainted with selfishness and fear.
“God loves you” is a nice statement. Has it become cliché to you? It’s far from that to God, who is not only the extreme lover of our souls, but the actual source of love. God IS love. Tragically, we often fall very short of the plan God has for us to experience his tenderness and know his security. We are to receive from Him and then pass His love forward. Tune in today and grab sacred keys that allow your love meter to read “FULL!”

Music for today's show:
How Deep is Your Love by The BeeGees
Testify to Love by Wynonna Judd

Christian Cliches

It’s a shame that some of the most impactful phrases ever spoken have been spoken so often that they have lost their power to inspire, stimulate, and deeply encourage us. “The Truth will set you free”, “Jesus loves you”, and “All things work for good for those who love Him” come to mind. We are taught in the book of James that our words contain power. What about God’s word? Listen up today as we explore how to keep the deep and precious word of God meaningful and alive as we speak it into this world.

Music for today's show:
The Word by Sara Groves
Only You by The Platters

Windows of Opportunity

Did you ever notice that windows of opportunity open in our lives and then close? What about that? Do you think you have missed any opportunities that you would have done better to take? Some opportunities are present daily. Does it take 20/20 vision to be able to see them? Well, no doubt that would help, but we do have help available that is better than perfect sight or perfect hindsight! God sees into eternity and has already laid the foundation for your life. Listen up today for some pointers on taking steps that lead to His perfect plan for your life.

Music for today's show:
Show Me the Way by Styx
Right Here Waiting for You by Richard Marx

Can Mold in Hawaii Bring Blessing to Japan’s Teens?

I hope that today you will the hear the phenomenal story of severe hardship touched by God’s hand. In his own unique and creative way, God has brought blessing to thousands of teens across Japan. Amazingly, the impetus was a home disaster here, in Hawaii. Don’t try to second guess God! He never lets us go through trials without being able to bring something of beauty from the rubble. The beauty comes after we don the life jacket of faith as the trial waters rise!

Music for today's show:
Surrender by Angela Aki
Tegami (The Letter) by Angela Aki

It's All in the Children's Faces

We live in a world of hurt, but we can, one by one, make a difference. Listen to the April 3, 09 show for the amazing story of how Angela Aki was inspired to write a song for teens in Japan. The song called Tegami, or The Letter, has lyrics about a letter written from a grown woman to her 15 year-old self. Angela Aki has touched the lives of thousands of discouraged children with her song that encourages believing in one's self and a future of promise. It's all in the faces of the children. There is no language barrier in this video.

Tune in Friday for this beautiful story!

Angela Aki, gifted pianist and singer, has profoundly impacted Japanese youth with her song “The Letter” (Tegami). People of all ages are drawn to Angela’s sell-out performances at Tokyo’s Nippon Budokan. This theatre seats 14,201 and was the site of the Japanese debut of The Beatles. Tegami is a song about a youth who writes a letter to her older self in the future. Lyrics featuring interchange between the young writer and the “older” self have been a catalyst for discussion and encouragement throughout schools and in many venues across Japan. It has especially impacted the mid-teen youth for which it was written. Without hearing the words in English, one can still experience the passion of the song by simply watching this video. Tune in Friday to hear Angela’s mother, Amy, tell the phenomenal story of how this song came to be. God can truly exchange beauty for ashes!

Men and Women of the Tombs

We can have blood coursing through our veins, but not really be living. Being alive without true inner freedom is a sort of prison – the worst sort. Sometimes we get used to prison. Maybe we grew up in “prison.” Maybe we don’t even notice where we are chained. The message of God’s ability to break chains of bondage is so powerful, amazing and good, that I hope you will tune in today to learn more about The Magnificent Plan for your life…the plan to live completely FREE!



Music for today's show:
Walk to the well by McCall Tucker
Man of the Tombs by Bob Bennett

Are You a Man or Woman Living in the Tombs?

As you enjoy this beautiful song, understand that it is not only about the Gadarene that Jesus delivered from many demons. This song is about the promise of healing that Jesus offers all men. We all have wounds of various depth. Jesus came to heal them all!

Only God's Truth Heals

Yes, we’re back on the very important subject of truth! “Our” truth comes from life experience. God’s truth is eternal and unbiased. He makes no errors in memory and never distorts the facts. God’s truth has certain hallmarks: it is encouraging, empowering, healing and penetrating. Without God’s truth as a foundation, our truth can leave us handicapped and broken (in places unseen). Who doesn’t need the truth that can free us? A freed life is a healed life! The healed life is a powerhouse for God!



Music for today's show:

He Is Not Silent by Out of the Grey
Ready To Take A Chance Again by Barry Manilow

Scrutinizing Self-Talk

“I’m an idiot!”, “I can never make up my mind!”, “What a jerk!”, “I’m not too bright”, “I’m can’t think anymore”, etc., etc., etc. I’m sure YOU have never said such things to yourself! Well, maybe you have… you wouldn’t be alone. Why are we so unkind to ourselves? Is this ok with God? What does He have to say about us? It’s time to “line up” with our maker.

Article mentioned on today's show:
A Salute To Our U.S. Constitution
By Chuck Baldwin

Music for today's show:
Wash me, Lord, By Harvest
I got a name, Jim Croce
You are so beautiful to me, Joe Cocker

What is Truth?

There is more than one truth, depending on how you look at things. Sometimes we say that there isn’t an absolute truth, because we look around and see how several different people can experience or interpret the same set of facts differently. So who is “right?” This kind of truth is human truth. Our own truth is useful, but thankfully, there is an absolute truth that is greater than our own. Our own truth seen in the light of God’s truth results in freedom - in every conceivable way. Praise Him all heaven and all earth!!


Music for today's show:

He is Alive by Dolly Parton
The Third Heaven by Carmen

Life is Short

Eternal life is, needless to say, pretty long! Our days on this earth, however, are quite limited. We blink and we’re adults. We blink again and we are parents. Another blink, and we’re already at mid-life or old age. The Bible tells us that this life is but a breath or a mist. It passes quickly. During this walk of life, who do we need to love more? Do we appreciate that we may not have a tomorrow to make amends? Life is not lost by dying; life is lost minute by minute, day by dragging day, in all the thousand small uncaring ways. ~Stephen Vincent Benét


Music for today's show:

A Mother’s Prayer By Melissa Manchester
Life is Short By Butterfly Boucher

Communicating to be Heard

When we really communicate, two (or more) people are involved. The other person must really hear and understand what we say in order for there to be true communication. Although we can’t control another’s response, we can do things to optimize the chances of getting a good one. A little self-control and forethought can go a long way toward producing a successful “meeting of the minds.” Even if we don’t get the response we are hoping for, we can sleep well knowing that we have done what we can, and done it well!

Music for today's show:

Talking in your sleep by The Romantics
Honesty by Billy Joel

Blessings Deferred

Did you ever find yourself wondering why something good happened for someone else, but not for you? Join the party; there’s a waiting line! This “party of wonderers”, however, is one party you’ll want to cut out on early. It doesn’t do much good to ponder these things unless there is something to observe, learn and put into personal use. Otherwise, it’s time to change our focus onto the areas that we do have a say about. This world isn’t fair – for anyone. We cannot observe someone else’s life and know it. Tune in today and find out how your reality plus God’s truth can combine to leave you in a state of peace and contentment.

Music for today's show:

Give Me One Reason by Tracy Chapman
All That Is In Me by Harvest

Pushing The mark

Rebellion against God’s guidance is not new to our generation. We have all ignored His voice and done our own thing in one way or another. Sometimes we persist until we are far down a dark road. Once we have created a legacy of great error, is there any way to a beautiful life? People do not have the power to redeem, but God does. Listen today to how “Kathy” was lifted by God’s grace out of life’s darkest hell. Hear about God’s endless mercy and His mighty power that can turn any life into a reflection of Him and His enduring love.

Music for today's show:

The River by Merideth Andrews
Warrior is a Child by Twyla Paris

Fredom of Choice in any Circumstance

It doesn’t always feel like there are choices, does it? Some things are beyond our control, like the loss of a child, a divorce, or a difficult illness. Nonetheless, there are always choices. Our most powerful choices have to do with ourselves and our own character. We are always free to make choices about our own attitude. A willingness to be honest with ourselves and to make fresh decisions are also within reach.

Music for today's show:

How Deep is Your Love By The Bee Gees
Suddenly by Billy Ocean

Making 2009 the Best Year Yet

What are you planning for in 2009? Hopefully, you are planning for a great year. The world outside of us may not change drastically, but nothing can stop us from changing for the better – if we so choose. In the Bible, God tells us not to be dismayed by what we see in the world. Stock markets, wars, and even health-care issues can provide fuel for worry unless we resist and stand firm in our faith. When we change for the better, it is reflected in the world. One by one, we do make a difference. Let this year be a year of great victory for you and those whose lives you effect.

Music for today's show:

You're Not Alone by Meredith Andrews
Heal The World by Michael Jackson

A Far From Perfect Holiday

Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Years… just three more days to fill our lives with joy and peace! Ahh…they were perfect weren’t they? What?! You say your holidays weren’t perfect? How strange!!

Well, actually, how normal! High expectations around the holidays can leave us feeling washed out and depressed when they are over. What are you doing right now to make the 2009 holidays (and every day) better than ever? It won’t be the gifts, or even the people that make the season bright. It’s the heart “attitude” we bring to each day that shapes our experience. Tune in Friday to learn more about getting ready for a great year!

Music for today's show:

Draw Me Nearer by Meredith Andrews
A Whole New World by Peabo Bryson & Regina Belle

God is Active Everywhere

My daughter, Marina, and a team from Olathe, Kansas went on a missions trip to Chennai, India in October. The team was left with great joy after seeing that the hand of God is active everywhere, and that light from within a soul can shine bright in the darkest of circumstances. Watch this short video and think about how you can extend the hand of Christ's love in your corner of the planet!

Resisting Temptation

What is so bad about being tempted? Well, temptation can lead to sin, or missing the mark. That doesn’t sound too bad so far, but sometimes we pay a very high price for failing to carefully assess our trajectory. Listen in today for motivation to nip in the bud our human tendency to court temptation. God has an offer for you and it’s one with strings. Maintaining a life line to our Creator is not only the source of ultimate peace, but supplies the wisdom and power we need to resist temptation!

Flirting with Temptation

There are lots of tempting things in this world: money, food, gossip, sex, power… What tempts you? None of us has a perfect record. Even Jesus, himself, was tempted. If we know that we have a weak area, what do we do? Do we guard ourselves by protecting our hearts? Flirting with temptation is like standing with our toes over the edge of a cliff. If we fall, the price may be very high.

Music for today's show:

Careless Whisper By George Michael
Criminal By Fiona Apple